It is truly thoughtful when people ask, "How are things going?" or, "Any updates from the doctor?"
How I'd like the freedom to unload and tell you the truth in great detail! And she is always with me. I don't want to make her the focal point of the conversation... especially when there are details she has not fully grasped herself. And I don't want to talk behind her back, either.
So its wisest and best to say that, "Overall things are good," (Translation: we are making the best of it), and that things are just taking their natural course.
But it is a sincere expression of concern with genuine interest. And much appreciated! But it's also wise to read between the lines and the body language... and follow up privately when you can.
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